The ugly truth about Grindr and exclusion-based dating
Exclusion-based dating has long been a widely embraced norm for apps and services like…
The ‘dark patterns’ that keep us hooked on gay geosocial apps
To what does the gay geosocial app Grindr owe its success? Is it the…
How magical thinking destroys gay men’s chances of living authentically
Are you sitting down, dear reader? There’s something I need to tell you: almost…
Dating apps are surveillance capitalism at its most cynical
As someone with a natural tendency for obsessive compulsiveness, I loathe visits to the…
Is ‘choice’ in app-based dating really just a cruel illusion?
As someone with a natural tendency for obsessive compulsiveness, I loathe visits to the…
Five steps to a fantastic gay relationship
Throughout my twenties, I stumbled from one unsuccessful gay relationship to another, thwarted by…
How to avoid becoming a gay dating app sociopath
Much of the small talk that happens on gay dating apps is, in my…
Be kind. Stop the oppressive cycle of internalized gay shame.
My lack of body coordination has always been a painful fact, evoking a gay…
Why grieving the heteronormative life gay men were promised is okay
You would think that as gay men, we shouldn’t be bound by the same…
How judgmentalism is ruining gay dating
Gay dating is riddled with pitfalls, but perhaps the most significant is the rampant…
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