Neurodivergents mask to survive systemic ableism—but at what cost?
Autistic individuals learn early on that if they want to survive in a society…
The secret to building neurodivergent self-esteem? ‘Strengths awareness’
Many of the messages we get as autistics living in an ableist society remind…
Gatekeeping actually makes the neurodivergent community less of a safe place
Living within an ableist society, autistic folk often experienced marginalization. But to experience it…
Why setting limits as a neurodivergent person is crucial
Disrespectful people, pushy people, abusive people—chances are all of us have at one point…
7 creative self-care techniques for neurodivergents
Are you an autistic who struggles with self-care? You may not be the only…
Is there a place for the graysexual identity within the LGBTQ+ community?
Apparently being LGBTQ+ also means being hypersexual. At least, that’s what many of us…
Yes, male privilege exists. But it carries a terrible cost—especially if you’re gay.
The dominance of the male gender is visible not only in male privilege,=but also…
Gay dating and hookup apps and the hidden cost of ‘distraction capitalism’
Gay dating and hookup apps dangle the promise of in-person interactions, yet no one…
‘Breadcrumbing’: the gay dating app practice that destroys connection
If you've ever used a gay dating app before, you've likely experienced "flash in…
The ‘dark patterns’ that keep us hooked on gay geosocial apps
To what does the gay geosocial app Grindr owe its success? Is it the…